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If you consider yourself a person of fear, you should know how your fear could cause serious problems. Sometimes it may only take a tragic moment is all it takes to reveal a violent reminder of how one's lacks mortality and control over one's life.

Often mother's teach their children to never trust man. Today, women are independent and don't have that need to depend on their husband if a marriage should break up. Some women often enter into a marriage, with an escape clause it case the marriage should fail. This is due to the woman being afraid of her husband doing to her what one's father may have done to one's mother.

Other women are afraid of infidelity. They are afraid of feeling trapped. Women at one time pulled together to gain strength over men. Today, the relationship between men and women are ending. Often women will devote 100% of her to a marriage only to see it fail by the man. This is devastating for the woman involved. Often, if there are female children at home, this action will actually warp a child's man against the opposite sex. Could this be the reason so many children turn out to be gay? Many children soon turning into adults have sworn that they would never let anything like this happen to them. Many times things are said and then the same pattern reoccurs again.

You can guard your emotions. One hates to end up in counseling to save a marriage or to stay sane. Women try so hard to console their partners and share love for just that one, when inside she is actually dying. Many times women figure out that at the base of the problem, it had all been her fault for placing her trust in the wrong person.

If one puts all their trust into people, one will surely fall short in their expectations of life. Today there is a widespread of fear when it comes to trusting men. There is often a lot of stress that comes when one is attempting to be in control of a relationship that will ultimately rob one of all the joy and happiness in their life. One should in freedom, not in fear.

The first step for releasing your fear is to give up total control. So often, the windows of one's soul become clouded from so much fear. When this happens, one often looks upon one's life with distrust and dread.

Often fear is looked upon as a feminine emotion. Because of this, one may discourage fear in their daughters. There have been times when children were punished for showing fear. Years have passed for many women and they continue to live with fear. This emotion can start to affect others in one's life. Emotional communication is how one releases their true emotion to others. This emotion is naturally transmitted to those that are closest to your situation. Often those closest to you will notice the reflection and isolation by means of one's looks, words and body language. Don't let fear conquer your life and well being. Speak out and let it be known. Seek the proper help you deserve to live a fulfilled life.

One seldom stops and thinks back to understand as to why one can't see how much like their parents they have become, when one was so quick to harshly judge them. When one judges their parents, one's understanding becomes darkened, and the fear sets in to repeating their failures and surplus. One must begin to deal with their fear to establish positive habits and responses.

Each individual has a different level of tolerance to fear, depending on how well one has learned to cope when things don't go their way or when one is faced with an unbearable situation that they must deal with.